Update doc/contributing/large-pull-requests.md

Co-authored-by: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>

Author: mcollina

doc/contributing/large-pull-requests.md

@@ -54,9 +54,8 @@ benefit from the additional requirements described here.
 Large pull requests may only be opened by existing
 [collaborators](https://github.com/nodejs/node/#current-project-team-members).
 Non-collaborators are strongly discouraged from opening pull requests of this
-size. Collaborators should close large pull requests from non-collaborators and
-direct the author to discuss the proposed changes in an issue first, and to
-find a collaborator to champion the work.
+Large pull requests from non-collaborators will be closed unless it's been discussed
+in an issue and have a collaborator to champion the work.
 
 ## Requirements