fix(apple-runner): trim build scratch from runner cache keys and keep packaging out of the shared cache - #3248

Node.js 20 is deprecated. The following actions target Node.js 20 but are being forced to run on Node.js 24: actions/upload-artifact@ea165f8d65b6e75b540449e92b4886f43607fa02, pnpm/action-setup@41ff72655975bd51cab0327fa583b6e92b6d3061. For more information see: https://github.blog/changelog/2025-09-19-deprecation-of-node-20-on-github-actions-runners/