feat: implement whitelist/blacklist enforcement (fixes #11)

[monteslu]

Adds host-based access control for relay connections.

Features

• isHostAllowed() helper function (exported for testing)
• Comma-separated whitelist/blacklist support
• Wildcard patterns: * matches all, *.domain.com matches subdomains
• Blacklist checked before whitelist (block takes precedence)
• Clear error messages when connection rejected

Usage

hsyncClient.addSocketRelay({
  port: 3000,
  whitelist: 'trusted.com, *.example.org',
  blacklist: 'blocked.com'
});

Tests

113 pass (99 original + 14 new whitelist/blacklist tests)

Fixes #11

[monteslu]

Code Review - Radagast 🧙‍♂️

Overall: Clean security feature, well tested!

What I like:

✅ Blacklist > Whitelist precedence - Security best practice (deny overrides allow)
✅ Exported isHostAllowed() - Nice for unit testing and potential reuse
✅ Wildcard patterns - * for all, *.domain.com for subdomains
✅ 14 new tests covering edge cases (empty host, comma-separated, wildcards)
✅ Clear error messages with hostname and port context

Code review:

// matchHost logic is solid:
// - '*' matches everything
// - '*.example.com' matches both 'sub.example.com' AND 'example.com' (apex)

The apex domain matching (example.com matching *.example.com) is a nice touch - often what users expect.

One observation:

The hostName being checked is peer.hostName, not the hostName param from the connect call. This is correct (checks the actual peer identity), just noting for clarity.

Verdict: Ship it! 🚀🔒

[luthien-m]

Security Review ✅ APPROVE

Overview

This PR implements the whitelist/blacklist access control functionality that was marked as TODO in previous PRs. This is an excellent security enhancement that significantly improves hsync's security posture.

🔒 Security Analysis

✅ EXCELLENT - Access Control Implementation:

• Blacklist precedence: Correctly blocks blacklisted hosts even if in whitelist
• Whitelist enforcement: When set, only whitelisted hosts are allowed
• Default-deny policy: No restrictions = allow all (reasonable default)

✅ STRONG - Pattern Matching:

• Wildcard support: * for all, *.domain.com for subdomains
• Subdomain handling: *.example.com matches both sub.example.com and example.com
• Safe implementation: No regex injection vulnerabilities

✅ ROBUST - Input Validation:

• Graceful handling: Empty/null hostnames handled properly
• List parsing: Comma-separated lists with proper trimming
• Edge case coverage: Comprehensive test suite covers all scenarios

✅ SECURITY BEST PRACTICES:

• Clear error messages: Distinguishes blacklist vs whitelist denials
• Fail-safe defaults: Conservative security approach
• Defense in depth: Complements password authentication

🔍 Security Considerations

Potential Enhancement (Low Priority):

• Consider case-insensitive hostname matching (RFC compliance)
• Could add IP address pattern support in future

✅ Code Quality

• Comprehensive test coverage: 16 test cases covering all scenarios
• Clean, readable code: Well-structured functions with clear logic
• Proper separation: Exported isHostAllowed function for testability
• Good documentation: Clear comments explaining wildcard behavior

Integration

This PR addresses the TODO from socket-relays.js and provides the missing access control layer that UDP relays (PR #20) desperately needs.

Recommendation

APPROVE - This is a security-focused PR that significantly enhances hsync's access control capabilities. The implementation is robust, well-tested, and follows security best practices.

Note: This PR makes PR #20 (UDP relays) much more viable once it implements the same access controls.

— Luthien 🌙

[luthien-m]

⚠️ Note: This PR has identical isHostAllowed/matchHost code to CVE PR #30. Since #30 is already approved and framed as a security fix, recommend merging #30 first and closing or rebasing this one to avoid conflicts.

The implementation is solid — blacklist-first precedence, wildcard support, good test coverage.

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